Another blip from The Power of Now

To be identified with your mind is to be trapped in time: the compulsion to live almost exclusively through memory and anticipation. This creates an endless preoccupation with past and future and an unwillingness to honor and acknowledge the present moment and allow it to be.

The compulsion arises because the past gives you an identity and the future holds the promise of salvation, of fulfillment in whatever form. Both are illusions. -Eckhart Tolle

While talking about our upcoming trip to Thailand over breakfast….

“Schvilo - when you go to Bangkong (what’s she’s calling Bangkok) all I ask - can you pleaz pick me up diamond and emerald earrings. Good ones schvilo! I have emerald ring and I cannot wear wiz out. All ze Russians are buying ze diamonds in Bangkok.”

- Mom #2

I was at a total loss for words. First, I’ve never known or heard of Bangkok being the spot for reputable fine jewelry. Second, she’s the only person in the world I know who doesn’t just want a shirt that says “Someone who visited the pumping pussy palace loves me” - she needs straight up diamond and emerald earrings.

Oy.

The more familiar two people become, the more the language they speak together departs from that of the ordinary, dictionary-defined discourse. Familiarity creates a new language, an in-house language of intimacy that carries reference to the story the two lovers are weaving together and that cannot be readily understood by others.
— Alain de Botton, On Love (via justbesplendid)

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When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.’ To this day, especially in times of ‘disaster,’ I remember my mother’s words, and I am always comforted by realizing that there are still so many helpers - so many caring people in this world.
— Fred Rogers (via dearworld)

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